how to cope with not being liked

just a random post on some of the random thoughts I have in mind. it just pops up after a few days I posted this.

everyone will somehow got themselves some haters despite how famous or infamous they are. this is plainly because everyone on earth are different with each other. or maybe, some people just purely hates everyone on earth.

here are the thoughts I usually have whenever I overheard some of the bitches that hate me. haters gonna hate.

expect some people to reject you. it's a fact of life that we won't like everyone and there will be people who don't like us. it often has to do with different personalities rather than something being wrong with you.

don't expect everyone to like you, you will feel better without the expectation of everyone liking you. after all, everyone is born and raised up in different families, and practice different habit.

learn how to brush off rejections and put downs. at the end what matters is how you handle it. if you still as if you are comfortable with "you" then others will respect you for your healthy self esteem.

try to think of another way, maybe you're led to a better opportunity after the being rejected.

it's often about them and not about you so try no to take rejection personally. perhaps they are jealous or envious of you. or perhaps they are just taking their feelings out on you.

there is a saying about haters. there is 1 of 3 reasons for haters to hate. they hate themselves, they want to be you, or they see you as a threat.

people rarely see us in absolute terms. they are some things they will like and others they will dislike. it may be they hate one particular trait, but we are a mix of many things, so don't worry about that.

am pretty sure there is something in everyone that people will like about, maybe not the haters, but someone eventually will like it or even love it.

don't over think what other people think or say. distract yourself, and think of something else instead. they are not worth the effort or the wasted energy. just get on with your life and enjoy being you.
be yourself, if they don't like you, fuck them. if they like you, they will still like you at the end of the day.

signing off. XOXO

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